Conflicts in the Classroom

CSE590IT 10/23/2001
Instructor: Tammy VanDeGrift
Discussion Notes

What associations does the word conflict have for you?

Class: Struggle, disagreement.
Andrew: UN Peace Keeping
Native Chinese speakers agree that Joyce is wrong about the the Chinese ideograph for conflict being a mix of the symbols for opportunity and danger.

Classroom Conflict Experiences

Jonathon: One student is always late and has requested that the quizes be delayed to accommodate him. Denied as unfair to others in class. We didn't have any particular suggestions for this situation.

Andy: Had several conflicts, though has always turned out to be a misgraded paper.

Ideas for Productive Conflicts

Andrew: Listen to complete argument/disagreement.
Tammy: Don't jump to quick judgment.

Some discussion about the meaning of Joyce's suggestion to incorporate humanism into conflict resolution followed. The question at hand was: does that necessarily imply soft, flexible boundaries? A suggestion was made that Joyce is more concerned with the communication styles used during the conflict than the eventual outcome; thus, it does not require a flexible boundary as much as a willingness to treat students as humans when enforcing it. Andrew pointed out that grade-grubbing students are often single-minded and unwilling to listen to a rational or compassionate argument, while harsh language can be used to "snap them out of it."